A few of days ago, I watched a video produced by MadameNoire titled: Toxic Masculinity. If you watch the video with no sound, you will see women dressed like they are feminine. But when you turn the sound up what you hear is rather confusing. These women are talking about issues such as: Black men don’t protect Black women but at the same time they are exuding masculine energy which would give any man the impression that they don’t need to be protected. These women do not seem to realize that they are sending men a confusing message. On the one hand they are trying to look feminine but on the other hand they are talking like they are men. So, this duality or dichotomy in Black women raises the queston: Is there such as thing as toxic masculinity in men? Or is toxic masculinity actually the result of women trying to think and behave too much like men? Is being too much masculine the reason some Black men won’t select, protect, and/or marry Black women? Let’s talk about it.
The real reason why there is constant conflict in Black male/female relationships is because they are both trying to be dudes. Two dudes make doo-doo so there is always going to be some shit. Sisters, a real man or the type of man that you really want is not going to be attracted to and want to marry a woman who is projecting masculine energy. Real men are not attacted to chick dudes. Many sisters constantly complain about men being on the down-low. But did you ladies ever think about why down-low men are attracted to you? It’s because they can have sex with a MAN that has a real vagina?
Why did feminist or womanist women come up with the term: toxic masculinity? Masculinity has always been seen as a positive trait in men and is sexy to normal women. So, why, all of a sudden has masculinity become toxic? When a guy is truly masculine it makes women want him and it makes other men want to be like him. The only time masculinity becomes toxic is when women are trying to be masculine or when an adult adolescent male is trying to prove he’s a man. The word “toxic” means to be poisonous and very harmful in a pervasive or insidious way. Man-sized boys are not masculine. The guys like Pookie, Ray-Ray, Peanut, and Skillet operate more like emotional women. The only difference is they are male so they have the power of a man in their hands. Therefore, man-sized boys try to prove that they are a man by destroying something with their hands or by beating on a woman.
Women exude toxic masculinity when they try to do everything a man would do in the belief that men and women are equal. These women become toxic when they operate like an adult adolescent male or a man-sized boy who is trying to prove that he is a man too. The word “adultery” means polluted or toxic ergo women become toxic when they go around drinking, drugging, sexing, and cussing. They become even more toxic to men, in a harmful or insidous way, after they get rejected, ghosted, or pumped and dumped. Some of these women are gorgeous so a lot of men will have sex with them but they are what I call “pretty poison”. They don’t understand that men will have sex with a masculine, I can do anything that a man can do, woman because they have a vagina and especially if they are pretty and having sex all willy-nilly. However, men will only deal with them for a short time because they are too toxic to be with. Plus, a man won’t marry them due to their high body count. Since they are polluted with the DNA of multiple men their wombs have become toxic. As I said: two dudes make doo-doo so there is always going to be some shit. Having sex with a woman after her womb has become toxic is akin to dipping your male member in a toilet filled with old excrement. Since a lot of guys are just nasty they will hit it a couple of times and then be out.
Masculinity is never toxic when it is carried by a REAL man. Truly masculine men have 7 positive qualities that women love: Confidence, Responsibility, Self Improvement, Strength, Courage, Leadership and Charisma. Click this LINK and watch my YouTube video on toxic masculinity where I discuss each one of these qualities individually. Then, you will clearly see why a woman would want a man who is masculine and why the masculine perfectly completments the feminine. And you will also see, my feminist ladies, that masculinity can never be toxic to real femininity.
